"Walking out of the Valley" 2.0

[ovrrnbw]

I can tell you want to save this. My advice is to quit telling her to move out. You've told her so many times that it is just showing her that she hurts you still and you are prodding her to file. She doesn't have to move out.

Her going to the same gym as OM? Well don't y'all live in a small town? I wouldn't give it a second thought.

Now, "JJ", you know my W may say she is committed just to get me to go but I do believe she is pushing harder for us to go since the new year.

That's right. You won't know for sure for a long time. I think your pain comes out towards her in negative ways most of the time and she fires back every time. If you want to save it I think you need to 180 here.

I know many will think I'm being too soft, I'm not advocating for you enabling her.

Is your W walking away from you and couldn't take the fights anymore and found an affair? What started the affair?