What the heck is so complicated about your affair? sounds pretty typical to me.
I do have to wonder about a post you made on anothers thread pondering why their spouse was being so obvios about their affair being that they (like you) want to get caught and kicked out so as not to be viewed as "the bad guy". Sounds pretty lame to me but then again it also sounds pretty typical.
Why do you think your w would fall apart if you were honest about your dishonesty and proceeded to set her free? I'll also let you know that sounds pretty typical too.
What did you hope to gain in comming to this site meant for saving marriages when you have no desire at all to save yours?
Why do you care at all what happens to your w? why would that concern not keep you from deceiving her so?
Why did you marry your w?
What attracted you to your w?
What attracted you to ow?
How do you feel about your w being with other men?
How do you feel about ow being with other men?
What other than w's weight changed in your relationship with her. (please tell me you are not so shallow that a little weight gain is your only cause)
I will tell you that the way you describe your r with ow as being something different than any you've had before is also common. You may take what I and others here say to you as being ignorant or snide but we've lived and read alot on the subject and know.
