Quote: I had an affair granted. I had it cause I was looking for what i missed at home.
If you a lacking something at home. Why don't you look inside yourslef to find what it is. Don't look to W or OW for Happinees because you won't find it.
After I got H with his OW I reziled I am the one to look towards when something is missing. If it is not feelling like I am love, I learned to love myself. If it was because we wasn't speending time together I tought of things to do. If H didn't want to do them fine I can have fun by myslef.
Quote: we all want true love and when we thnk we find we go aFTER IT.
Yes we all want love, But true love is just a silly dream. It is an excuse for what you did. You need to face the facts that life is hard, and love is something you have to work hard at or it will slip form your fingers.
You need to ask yourself why you had the affair instead of fixing what you felt was wroung with the M.
And You are in the wrong place if you want to hear that the affair is okay. Because mostly you will hear what a JACK*** you are to your wife.
The one thing that I would love to know is what makes anyone think that an Affair is the answer to a M. What makes someone sleep around on the one that the proimosed to love until death to we part.
You say that you care for your wife but You don't love her. Well bub, noone can feel love 24/7. Everyone one falls out of love. The diffince is that me and the rest here choose to find and fight for the love back.
