L...10-4 will do. I met a buddy out before Christmas for some drinks. We usually get together once a quarter for Happy Hour. Need to coordinate another meeting.

Yeah, that's what my thought process is. The girls know that my house is their home, it's the only one they can remember outside of my XW's place but I don't think they view that the same. They can't go outside and play and have no friends in the area she lives in. At my house there is all the kids they grew up with and can go outside to play, ride their bikes to the park, etc. So I don't mind it one bit and if I get to see her more often then just a bonus for me.

Assuming things continue on with Dr. as they are now I will have some things to navigate in the future as we would be moving from our home and either into the Dr's house or buying a new one together. That would mean they would go to a different middle school even though it is in the same town and my youngest would have to change as well unless we were able to petition the school district to allow them to continue going even though I moved.

Funny thing is that all of this hinges on me as my XW moved to a different town, still in the same school district but the schools are vastly different.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018