There is an OW. With a live in boyfriend. When he suggested money will be tight so he’ll see what he could do I asked if he’s sure it’ll be that bad because I assumed he’d have a “roommate.” He continues to insist that I’ve blown his EA out of proportion. It’s not like that. He’s just not happy in our marriage. And while their friendship is inappropriate he’s not asking he to leave her bf, because they are just friends.
The fantasy is insanely strong. He thinks we can be friends if this all ends the way he wants it to.
Yes, so much like my W. She had this all worked out. I'd keep the house, her apartment would be nearby. She'd still have a key so she could help with the dogs. She'd come over and play house occasionally by making us dinner. Or she would have me over there to have dinner with D14 (at the time).
When I told her I'd be selling the house and potentially moving in with a buddy, she was incredulous. Until I pointed out that it wasn't fair to think she could move on with her life but expected me to remain stuck, that I would be moving on with my life too.
This was all because she had decided she wanted to sleep with other people. She never followed through with it but that was her underlying motivation.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
