I have much the same situation. Mine filed in mid November and for a few weeks, came back hard toward me but since then has backed off. We talked Monday and he said he hasn't changed his mind. He can finalize it next week but said he is in no hurry to do so and implied ever so slightly that "trust" was his issue and could change his mind. Those crumbs aren't good enough for me anymore. It's all BS. I twisted myself into a pretzel trying to make changes and alleviate complaints. We have no kids so that isn't an issue. I made a conscious decision yesterday to let it go and have gone dark. Mine has not yet experienced the consequences of what he has done but he is about to, and I am ready to go. I'm not saying it doesn't hurt - it hurts a lot. But I am too old to be wasting time like this anymore. If it is my destiny to go on alone and ultimately with someone else, it's time to move toward that. I still don't think mine can pull the trigger in the courtroom but I am not hanging around waiting to find out.
