Remember, these are all words. My wife had big plans like this too. She never picked a time but she was very clear: she was getting a job, an apartment and a divorce.

No follow through. Based on his lack of answers I'm guessing he'll still be there come June. But that's a guess.

Do you have an inkling at all of there being someone else? The fantasy is really strong with him. Does he really think he'll not have to pay support?

If he does start to follow through I highly suggest a getting a lawyer to draw up a separation agreement for the support.

Overall, it sounds like you handled it well.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018