Just as a wrote that I wake up this morning to an email from W. As I wrote earlier one of her best friends has a cocaine addiction which I became aware of in the beginning of November which was the last time I spent time with W.

W: Hi,

happy new year, hope you had fun:)

I myself was going to be with X(her friend), but guess who didn't show up?
So I was sitting ready home alone waiting for her all evening, but she never came..
Hopefully she will get some help soon..

Anyway!

Can you wire me 2000 SEK? I got a bill I had to pay, and money wasn't enough this month.

(for anyone who isn´t familiar with my sitch, I have an agreement to pay her a certain amount if we were to separate so the money she is asking for is her money)

Me:

Thank you and happy new year !

Is she ok now? Have you seen or spoken to her since? I am so sorry to hear this and that you had to be alone. I see she always watches my instastories and likes my pictures so I hoped that was a sign she's doing better.

For NYE I was just home alone with the pug. "owner 1" had to go to Russia until mid January and "owner 2" was away as well and I wanted pug to be safe and have fun so I just decided to make good food for him and buy some new toys.

Of course, I just wired you 2000.

(I share my dog with two others who used to be a couple but split up, hence why I write owner 1 and 2)

Perhaps I shouldn´t have written that I was home alone or if that was too much information. But she wrote back this -

W:
Yeah. When I tried to call her she switched her phone off, so that was pretty s****y. I was thinking about to call you, but I assumed you wouldn't want that smile

I didn't answer her for days, because I was so angry and disappointed in her. But she said she was sick, which is 100% not true of course. But what can I do.


This last email was sent just a few minutes ago. Nothing to reply to I guess and sounds like there´s a temp check in there.





Last edited by BenB; 01/09/20 11:20 AM.

Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019