Understood Steve, yeah don't want to settle for being a friend...
As of today I know she is still seeing the other man, thought maybe it had stopped, but it hasn't. She continues to hide it from her family and most of her friends. I guess I have a hard time understanding, if she wants to be with him then why doesn't she just be with him? I guess I just don't operate like that so it's hard for me to understand.
Maybe they have to keep a secret because of something on his end, I guess I don't know, and I should really just stop thinking about it.
Some of you guys are very strong to be able to continue in a situation like this, not sure how long I can wait it out.