Woosa- how long after BD did self destruct start and what did that look like for you/H ...should I find your thread? My Hs behaviour often makes me feel like I’m crazy and that this isn’t MLC and that he will just carry on his merry way because it’s what he said he will do in the beginning and throughout.
Honestly he's been on a path of self destruction for awhile now. But after BD he never lost it with me. In hindsight I think he knew he would if he's around so he opted to not sleep here anymore and minimize his time here. but just a few days ago he blew up. so in terms of a timeline it's about 3~4 months since BD. For whatever reason he hit a low point that day and couldn't contain it.
Originally Posted by Kindly
So H sent me via email financial discovery forms to start the S process...I am very confused as to what to do next. I have started my search for a lawyer...but realized that something doesn’t feel right here. Since Nov he’s been threatening S/D and specifically said his Lawyer was going to reach out to me. That never happened. Now he sends these papers and has left MAJOR assets off. I asked if this was from his lawyer and he said yes.
Have you consulted a L yet? If not I would strongly recommend it. knowledge is power. Take legal matters seriously and let your L determine whether he is lying etc.
