I started my own business in 2014, so I could become financially independent as part of my plan to end the marriage.
Did you tell him you were taking steps to end the marriage back in 2014? You also said you went to see a therapist, did you tell him about that? I am not saying you had to do these things, I am honestly just curious.
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Every day I say to myself, “I don't like you.”
They did an interesting thing on the show "Brain Games" where a person who was previously very good at something told themselves over and over again they were lousy at it. What they found was the more the person convinced themselves they were not good the worse they got. Have you ever thought to look for at least one good thing about him each day and try to build on that? I am not saying it would save your relationship but at least it would help your own heart. In the end I see this site as healing oneself and with that the relationship will follow. Maybe you can use this site to help heal yourself of the anger, resentment, and loneliness. As you heal, do your individual work, and look for his positives, and hopefully he works to improve himself maybe you will both find happiness in each other again. If not at the very least you become a better person for yourself.
