A year on and standing

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This period, things has been pretty peaceful. With the children, we are good but when the children are asleep or what, we just mind our own business.

This morning, I informed her that the arrangement of counselling for the kids is underway and it should starts in a couple of weeks.

Also, I told her my Lawyer has some concern with the divorcing terms. With regards to the part on the Token Alimony and children access. I initiate the talk because previously, I told her that I will be meeting my lawyer in Jan and I do not want her to feel that I am dragging the process.

She told me that if I do not feel like giving her Alimony, it is fine with her. And what do I mean by children access? Am I going to stop her from seeing the children?

I told her no. She will have free access to the children anytime but not overnight and oversea access. I told her reason is I also don't think its healthy for the kids to keep moving and shuffling between 2 homes and also she always wanted to go out during the weekends. How is she going to look after them?

Then she said well if she has something on she will inform me and make arrangements. I just smile and say I would have my own plans and life then. Anyway, this was advised by my lawyer in my interest which I am still considering.

Then she said ok and I bid bye to her and leave for work.

Is such a response above fine?