Your not doing your W any favors dude. Be honest with her now so she can go find someone who will really love her and be with her only. The 2 of you lying, cheating slugs can crawl into a hole with each other. Who are you to expose your W to this heartbreak?
BE a man and be honest with your W and be honest with yourself. Let your W go so she can find someone who will really love her and be honest with her. Its obvious you don't have the backbone or the moral clarity to do it yourself!
Poeple who are of weak mind and spirit will always have turmoil in their lives..
Rondo