Dear Comrades, I need advice.

As you all know, I am DB-ing (detaching and GAL) and in a sense stalling for time in the hopes that W will come to her senses and return.

However, it is difficult when W asked "So what now? When are you going to let me go?". She has asked that repeatedly, and every time my answer would be "I cannot say, I am still thinking and I am waiting for an answer/sign" (stalling).

I get the sense that she is getting increasingly frustrated and impatient. She wants this to be over with.

What's the best thing I should say when she asks the same question again? Should I continue to stall? Should I validate?


M: 28
W: 30
T: 2 years
Married: Nov 2019
BD: 5 days after wedding (I know right?)