Newlywed and in crisis

[funbun]

Bottom line is I was lying to myself by thinking the changes I was making were for myself and not my Ex. DO NOT make the same mistake as me.

Some people are just not good people. The more I tried to figure out how she could make the decisions she did, the crazier I felt. When I do eventually find another partner, I at least have a list of what is acceptable and what is not. I ignored a lot of red flags that I didn't know were there until after she left.

I think the best thing you can do at this point is focus on what you can control. Focus on being the best version of yourself, realize you don't need to be with a woman to give you value. Validate, validate, validate. I sucked at this, but it is SO important.

Thank you for the advice FF. These ones in particular struck a chord with me. I hope the new year is going well for you so far.