Glad to hear things are going well. I don't think I saw if you updated how you (or you both) handled the 23rd-- interested to know if you don't mind sharing.
Also, I wanted to thank you for some really helpful posts on my sitch. You'd warned me that I should be prepared that my H was in a PA, not just an EA, and lo and behold you were totally right (also it had started a year earlier than he's admitted to previously). Because you were so clear about that being a possibility, I spent some time being prepared for that last BD, and I think I handled it much better than I would have otherwise. (Though by no means perfectly!!!)
Anyway, just wanted to pop in to say hi and thanks for your help!
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
