Our kids are teens. I could come up with something if I really wanted to, but a part of me just wants to get this over with. This is the first time he's flat out said he wants the divorce. So I think he needs me to hear him, even though I really don't want to.
We refer to this as the illusion of needing to do something. Often times the best thing to do is nothing.
Be advised, these R talks rarely, if ever, go well for the LBS. This is why we say to avoid them, and to certainly not start them. Just keep that in mind.
Hang in there wayfarer. Remember, marathon, not a sprint.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018