Even statements like: "I do not think you should move out. Ever. But I can't stop you from doing so." Are better than saying "Yes I agree" to something that you do not agree to.
Stay strong wayfarer. Learn. Grow. Don't try to fix him, just focus on you.
Steve that is exactly what I needed in my pocket and I needed the encouragement too.
I'm a quick study I've already been working on validating. Just read a whole bunch on the board about it. It's deflecting that I need more practice with. Trial by fire I suppose.
Our kids are teens. I could come up with something if I really wanted to, but a part of me just wants to get this over with. This is the first time he's flat out said he wants the divorce. So I think he needs me to hear him, even though I really don't want to.
