I just finished DR. But this is all moving so damn quickly. I just got the book right before Christmas. I've only gotten half way decent at detachment. We went from fine to this in 90 days.
I will definitely review the validation post. But I don't know how to get through this conversation with out him pinning me to something. How to do I get him to agree to like a Retrouvaille before he runs out the door like he's on fire? We have one near by in March, April and June. I don't know why everything has to be a decision right now.
I'm sprialing on this because he hasn't even made a half hearted fake effort to try to save this. I have no idea what on a Wednesday afternoon would make him think, well I think we should have the D talk via IM. This is such chaos.
PS I'm taking a run in the gym at work before I go home or I won't survive this. I know that.
