Kat I agree that their are other issue in my life that need fixing. The A made me realize I needed sumthing more. Maybe the OW isnt the 1. But I feel I need time away from my wife. Right now the OW is avoiding me everytime I try to get close to her. I know if she lets her guard down things will start all over and its her way of protection. I assume ur a woman..maybe u can understand that I dont believe this is entirely lust. Just holding her kissing her neck drives me wild. As it does the same to her. But Ill never know if we can go further unless we spend more time together...and the only way is for both of us to sep from our spouses. You cold have an arguement if I felt this way b4 with my wife but I didnt. My wife claims I was never a passionate man. Yet with the OW Im a diff person. Ive been with other women & never exp this feeling. I know this is a forum to save the marriage but not every marriage a salvable.
