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Listen to me. It’s because she’s afraid of the unknown and every time she feels OM slipping away she runs to you. This statement is anti DB but I’m here to help you. Divorce this woman ASAP. Many many years down the road if she gets her $hit together you can revisit it. You are not to blame here. Were you the perfect husband? No but you don’t deserve this kind of treatment. No human being does.

Sorry man but I want what’s best for you and kids.