I am willing to bet my last dollar that the OM decision is what is holding this up. If he was committed she would have filed already. I bet he's keeping her at arms length.
Being on the outside looking in you are probably right. This may be why she mentioned they have decided to stop talking and she said he is going to date other people. She also mentioned he is on Tinder. Of course I told her I didn't care to hear about him and that she is just admitting that they have still been talking.
Even repeating that phrase upsets me. Dating other people as if they have been dating all along.
Speaking on a positive note, I have been able to move forward and not focus on her.
