Yes, I didn’t ask for the BD. I saw signs and not knowing I was dealing with MLC, did not know how to right the train in the tracks. I tried as best I could to fix what I thought I could fix.
So yes, I didn’t ask for the BD. I just didn’t know what I could do to stop it. I now deal with a H who lives in the “living room” it is hard, as I assume your sitch is.
Hank deserves to sleep in his MBR. He may have not followed the repeated pattern to try to stop what was happening, but he’s trying now. It will be his wife’s choice on what happens next. He can at least stay in his bed.
