My feelings for my wife were dwindling b4 my affair. I just settled and figured this is what Im stuck with. Y rock the boat. I never looked for ne1 at the time. It just happened. Now u say my feelings will come back. Maybe so...but it wont be nething like what I exp. Y ru so sure that my feelings for the OW will disipate. And if they do it wont be to the degree that its now with my wife. Isnt it possible that we all evolve n maybe what I needed b4 doesnt apply to now