Less words always has more impact.


W: "I don’t mind sleeping downstairs tonight"

H:"Perfect"

or

H:"I understand"



Always be prepared for the worst case scenario. That makes dealing with everything else easy.


I think the worse case is she takes the kids and leaves. The next is she tells you she is leaving with the kids.

Seek legal advise ASAP.


With that said, tomorrow, I would go buy at a minimum a manly comforter for the bed. New sheets would be nice. It is now your room. A picture of a motorcycle (or other manly thing) would be a great touch. If you would like the bed in another location, put it there. Get the idea?

ONLY SAY THIS IF ASKED:
"I decided this would be better"

If she joins you in there to sleep, great. If not, great. That is the your attitude.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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