Reading, "Love must be tough" and it is a very good read. Maybe the best book I've read yet that offers scripture to go along with his explanations. Only just started it but it doesn't recommend filing for divorce. I can see how Respect is at the foundation of Loving someone.
He discusses the idea of someone and the loss of respect is what causes spouses to become WW. Makes perfect since as to why tough love and standing up for what is right in a calm and confident manner gains more respect for yourself and from others.
Ummmmmm We've been telling you that for months. So because you read it in a book now it sinks in? LH face palms.
I know right!!! I am slowly waking up to reality. She doesn't love me and wants someone else but scared to make the move or the decision. Eventually I'll make the decision for her.