When you slide into the MBR this evening, just do it. If she questions why you are doing it, be honest and tell her that the bed is just as much your as it is hers. If she's not happy, she'll take herself out to the couch and just leave her there. If she starts an argument, do not get into it w/her. If she's angry, she's going to bait you into an argument. Remember...you have kids in the house that can hear everything that goes on. Just get in the bed, turn the light out and let her fume. Trust me...she'll get over it in time or she'll be sleeping on that couch for many days ahead.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
