Thank you both. I’m thinking about your suggestion scout, it’s not a bad one. I’m weighing it against just putting it into action without running it by him. I’m overwhelmed with sadness, trying to get through work. I’m trying so hard to figure out how I could have been so wrong. It just doesn’t make any sense. His words say no but his actions (until this text) say yes. It feels like H is teetering at a tipping point and defaulting to the onward momentum of the divorce. I would like to present a strong front when we talk tonight, but I can’t imagine getting through it without crying.
