Ill be honest...sexually its the most incredible feeling. But I also enjoy spending time with ..what little we get.. my wife did gain some weight..I expressed my feelings that I didnt desire her..wasnt in luv with her..and yet she still fights for this marriage...she did start to wrk out..she even tried to look more appealing when we tried to get intimate..but I couldnt get aroused...I have to thnk of the OW in order to get that way...n it doesnt always wrk. Sexual intimacy with my wife would lst 15 min...even when we 1st met she sd it didnt last long....I made luv to the OW for about 3hrs...and no viagra. Theres so much passion when we make luv. The OW found out that my wife tried to call her...my wife mustve chkd my cell bill. In any case the OW now wants to cool things off. She only wants to be friends. Ive been this rd b4 with her and we usually make up. Maybe nows a good time for a break. But it hurts like hell
