Thank you. It is hard after I have made so many mistakes by being needy and clingy. I pushed him further away. What should I do now? I have stopped reaching out. We are in different states now. Do I wait a month or three weeks and send something friendly? Do I just let it all go because he is done? Do I try to work on this by working on myself? I love this person I have lostI know all the things I need to keep working on, anxiety is one of them. I don't know how to change his mind - he is the most stubborn person I have met who sticks to his decisions once he makes them. How do I work on me and show him the changes? Is there ANY hope when one of us has moved on...and what happens to all the love? He used to tell me his feelings for me were so strong he didn't know what to do but over time things happened that caused resentment. He didn't talk to me however. He never sat down and said "this is not working, lets make xyz changes or we need to part ways". It has been a year and I feel like a fool. I have tried to go on dates but I cannot bring myself up to it. I do love my ex partner.
