I don't want to beat up on you, but many of these guys don't seem to have a good idea on respect in a marriage. The bedroom thing is not going to move the needle for most spouses who are ready to quit. It's just not, but it gets a lot of focus on here. I really don't know why.
There are other ways to invest your time and energy. I will post my story soon, but I will say that I am the one that dropped the bomb in my marriage because I was tired of my spouse not willing to do an ounce of work. By the time it happened, the bedroom thing was so minor.
