im 41 my wife is 48. She 32. My wifes kids are grown and out the house. Ive been very intimate with the OW. Things I coundt even think bout doing with my wife I do with her. She expresses the same feelings. She opens up more to me than her husb. Least that what she says. It does irk me she went back to him. I told her I would even marry her. But I mentioned that only after she accpepted his proposal. Evn my shrink knows its complicated. My problem is decision making. I cant please both people. And I dont want to continue hurting my wife. My fantasy would be that he OW will get div (her husb has already told her 2x he was leavingher already) Yet hes still there. Once Im sep she will sep from him. And if I not Ill have to deal with living alone for a while
