Will do. Have kids home from school now. W will be home soon. Making dinner for family as I usually do and then I have to coach my son at BB practice tonight. Will update late. Thank you all for the advice and words.
I honestly don’t think she will be angry. She planned to go stay at her parents after telling the kids but her parents told her to stay put. She said she doesn’t want to send kids mixed messages, that is why I took the coach. I just expect her to take the coach tonight.
I don't want to beat up on you, but many of these guys don't seem to have a good idea on respect in a marriage. The bedroom thing is not going to move the needle for most spouses who are ready to quit. It's just not, but it gets a lot of focus on here. I really don't know why.
There are other ways to invest your time and energy. I will post my story soon, but I will say that I am the one that dropped the bomb in my marriage because I was tired of my spouse not willing to do an ounce of work. By the time it happened, the bedroom thing was so minor.