Now is a time for VERY few words and taking action.
Most poster talk way too much. STFU and listen. STFU and validate how she feels. STFU and observe. Do not share how you feel or what you need or what you want or how you see the future.
H"I am not sure" H"I need time to think about that" H"I will let you know when I decide" H"I have not thought about that"
Deflect as much as you can.
This...I am a firm believer that most LBS's talk (and act) their way right out of what, if anything, is left of their MR.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
