Been marrried for 13 yrs. I was 25 she was 32 at the time. She has 3 kids. Im just not physically attracted to her. My W sd I was nevr a pationate lover, yet with the OW Im totally diff. She brings out this passion in me. Sumtimes our emotions for each other R uncontrollable. Once her ex knew she was interersted in sum1 else he proposed. He convincned things would be diff. She hoped her would be like me. Maybe Im an ASS. But I feel shes now waiting for me to sep or div so she can make her move. She also has 2 kids and wanted sum1 there for support. She felt the only capable was her ex. Yes she does have issues. But Im willing to look past them if this is truly love