Sounds like a troll but I'll bite. I have never been in that situation. Everyone in this section is dealing with infidelity but for the most part their spouse's infidelity. More importantly everyone is trying to save their marriage in one form or another. How long have you been married? Any kids? What has turned you off towards your wife?
I can tell you that your current relationship with OW is unhealthy. Could you ever really trust her or her trust you? Your relationship is being built on deceit not trust. Honestly, looks like you are about to trade in one set of problems for another set of problems.
