I just think you need to decide whether you are going to commit to these changes. Do you think they are necessary?

If you decide not to change will this problem be a recurring one in all future relationships?

Until you decide and commit one way or the other it's hard to say what you should be doing.

H 34
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BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.