I started to have an affair with my co worker. Its going close to a year. I never thought I could have these types of emotions for another woman. I can describe my marriage now as settling. My wife luvs me with all her heart....yet I cant seem to show the same. my sexual desire for here has diminished considerably. When she Q my lov for her I lie. When I told her I wanted to leave prev she became emotionally distrought...evn to the point where I feared for her health. She found a receipt to a hotel & I told her it was 1 night stand with a hooker. Yet she still wants to wrk it out. At the moment Ive lost her trust. Now what makes my situation complicated is that the woamn Ive fallen for remarried her ex husband. She claims she did it cause she didnt thnk I was leave my wife and I made her want sum1. She was dic for 9 yrs. Shes been marrried for a month and problems hav arisen with her marriage. In the meantime we remained intimate. Go figure. She says she lovs me. I still plan on leaving my wife and want to know if any1 has had a similar exp.