I totally agree w/Cadet. Also, by having a thread of your own, you can track your progress and those questions that you may have can be addressed on your thread and you can go back to your thread at any time to review the answers as you travel your own path.
Because of your comment about being on moderation and not starting a thread until you are off moderation, where you on this forum previously? The reason that I ask is that most posters do not care if they are still on moderation or not when they start a thread. If so, do you happen to remember your former posting name? I would be more than happy to do the research and bring your last posting up for the posters to read unless you have a new issue going on in your life.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
