Thought I'd chime in to show support. Sorry you're here mate.
Your comments about moving too fast at the beginning and her comms style feeling like attacks struck a chord with me. Running the hypotheticals over and over and over really [censored] the big one doesn't it. Have you tried online guided meditation and breathing exercises?
Listen to Steve and ovrrnbw as they're legends here and will give you good, no bs advice.
Keep posting mate. Maybe add some profile details to the footer such as ages, key dates etc.
Cheers, DS
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
