So he came home last Thursday as expected. It was around 1:00 am. He came into our room, I said hi and he replied hi, the. He picked up his pillow to go sleep on the couch. Friday, I did my thing, I went shopping with D24 then we went home before we were off to another destination of fun. He was home, chatty enough to speak to me. I needed him to take care of one of our animals, since I would not be home and he freely told me where he was going and that he would not be late. Saturday, he was gone most of the day, but I did notice him looking at his hobby items (racing) he has not paid any interest in them, since before the BD. We need money to race, don’t have it and I attributed his non interest before the BD to depression that we do not have the funds. Saturday was our daughter’s last night home, I asked if she wanted to go someplace special for dinner and she responded dad was taking her out. After they came back, she and I went out. I didn’t say anything, but she said bye to him and he asked where we were going. Idk if he asked for her or both of us. He never asks me. Yesterday, he stayed away all day. I found out he went for a bike ride. We live near a beach and it seems like he went there to ride. For some reason, this hurt really bad. We haven’t gone in so long, we used to love going. When it was time to take D24 to the airport, she just said bye and he said bye back. No hug no nothing. When I came back from the airport, the living room was dark and I just went to bed. I hate not saying anything. I am fearful, that now it seems the OW has found another that my H will find another. I expect him to, but I do see signs he is still inside the man I love. No more snake eyes. Really. I hope this isn’t because our daughter was home, but he really didn’t spend much time with her. Does anyone have any advice? I mean besides GAL. Anyone have a similar situation? Thanks.
