Well, I was doing great with the GAL project then H initiated an intimate encounter last night and now I am fighting emotions again. The GAL project must continue. The thing that I struggle with is whether I should be intimate at all with him when he goes right back to his emotional distancing in the basement right after the deed is done. For those who are still intimate with a Wayward spouse, how did you deal with that?
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
