I was hoping 2020 was a year of letting go. I was informed this morning by my lawyer that my XW has retained a lawyer and will be fighting to amend the dissolution of marriage. What she is hoping to accomplish I have no idea yet. She may want more custody or maybe just wants to hurt me financially. The sad thing is no one will win by taking me to court. All she is going to do is destroy her relationship with her daughter even more and possibly hurt me so bad financially that D13 will suffer as a result. I will never understand.


1st BD December 26, 2008
PA admitted to by XW December 29, 2008

2nd BD May 23, 2019
Daughter confirms EA
Divorce Finalized July 18, 2019