She has told people she is getting a D. Has also told one person she would file if she could find the money. I do prescribe to the notion that D is just a piece of paper. She has shown no signs of wanting to R and it is my belief that she would always second guess not getting a D.
Just seems mediation and getting the best deal possible while she is wanting out makes sense. Of course, as I type this, she texts me saying, "If you end up making an appointment with that mediator, it would have to be on a Friday..."
