now he’s shut right down and does anything and everything to avoid a conflict of any sort including talking. He also still seems to be going out with family and friends which seems ‘abnormal’ for MLC... 1. Do they often appear as if everything is fine with total confidence that nothing has changed? Except for when hiding in ‘their quarters’ and showing avoidance behaviour at home?
My H was like that. Looked and acted normal generally. Avoided serious talks. Until he started to self-destruct.
Originally Posted by Kindly
2. How do I show him change is possible from a distance when I feel like he’s not even looking?
You don’t, you make changes for yourself and the purpose is not to show him. He may or may not notice. But that doesn’t matter if they are still deep in MLC...you do things for your own good. Not to win him back.
