I will also be making an appointment with a mediator tomorrow. I am seeking primary custody of my S11 and S18 (while he is an adult, I'd like to keep the boys together if possible).
Are you in the US? I know in TX 18 is considered an adult and as such they are legally responsible for themselves at that point. So there would be no financial support or "custody" of S18. I think the whole US is that way as well. Our D decree mentioned that any support agreed to only applied through the age of 17.
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IC says she doesn't see anything that screams D is necessary in our sitch.
There hardly ever is in the situations that land here.
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W is in replay and is projecting her anger onto me and making the fall guy. This is likely triggered by her unresolved issues as an adoptee.
Whatever the reasons, you can't fix her. She has to do that work herself. All you can do is stay out of the way.
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I continue to GAL as much as I can, still working out and maintaining my 50 lb weight loss.