Detachment means what she says and does does not control you. Attitude, thoughts, actions, feelings. One after the other.
I keep reading those detachment threads. I'll admit this is the hardest part. When I'm out doing things it's hard not to wish she was there enjoying them too, thoughts like that. I know I'm pretty early in this process, 3 months, compared to many of these situations.
I also struggle with thoughts of how if I just changed this little thing, or did this little thing, we would be on a different path now. I get so frustrated with myself for not seeing what was happening until after the fact. That is actually why my username is justremember. Whatever happens moving forward I need to make sure I do not forget to live life in the present and not take things for granted.
