I know this a lengthy update. I know I did not successfully go NC. I also know that I am going to try my best to not put any stock into what she is telling me without time and proof in the pudding. I am also going to keep growing and working myself and the things that make me happy outside of any relationship.
That wasn't lengthy, have you read any of my posts? Ha!
I agree with R2C. Proceed slowly. Believe nothing, verify everything. Enforce boundaries. Don't set boundaries you won't enforce.
I took my WW back very easily every time, it didn't work well. Just remember that nothing requires an immediate answer. I'd be cautious about her having ended things.
Good luck.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
