Interesting to hear the perspective of your IC relating to DB. Mine is anti DB in their opinion and experience, I should have R chats to clear up W's festering resentments and to set the record straight on things that didnt happen (rewriting of the past stuff, or miscommunications).
Do you think those R chats will clear up her resentments? I suggest reading more. Resentments take a long time to build, and a long time to heal in a way that weakens the emotional response that comes with it.
"Setting the record straight" haha oh lord!!! Don't try this unless you are a glutton for punishment. Now is certainly not the time. The time for this talk may never come. Are you ok with that? Will it bug you forever? Can the right....attitude...overcome that? Up to you....
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How long did it take to rebuild your PMA? I'm there with you, I had that and confidence in spades before I shifted focus and lost the alpha.
I'm still doing it. Every day I have to prove it to myself.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
