Thx peacetoday - I missed earlier you asked H age...he’s 44. Looking back after BD I was able to see that things have been “off” with him since at least Oct 2018. How on earth did I miss the signs of something happening, even more work than usual, distant at times, restless sleeping...I thought it was work and he let me believe that or denied anything at all was “wrong”.

Does anybody know / have experience with what changes a mlcers destructive path? What triggers them to rethink or dig deeper to see that all hope is not lost? ESP if they are in complete denial and won’t seek any form of help.

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